Ephesians 6:2

Honour. See on Ex. 20:12. The honor here spoken of is not a sentimental respect, but actual obedience. A divine comment on this principle is given in Matt. 15:4–8. Honor may be thought of as the attitude from which obedience springs, and it should be observed that this honor is due both father and mother. One is not to be placed before the other in esteem. This honor is shown in a variety of ways. It includes the little attentions that youth should show to age, confidence in the word and judgment of the parents, and loyalty to the family name and integrity.

First commandment. Not only is it natural that obedience should be given to parents, but it is God’s express will. It is the first commandment in the Decalogue to which a promise is specifically attached; indeed, it is altogether unique in that respect. The promise made in the second commandment (Ex. 20:6) is of a general nature applying to the keeping of all the commandments, but special blessing is promised upon those who obey their parents.