Judges 13:12

Let thy words. Manoah desired to show his confidence in the message of the Stranger by expressing in this way not only his desire but also his belief that the promise would be fulfilled.

How shall we order? Literally, “What shall be the rule [ordinance, rule of life] for the child?” This prayer should be upon the hearts of all parents. Their children are, in a special sense, gifts from the Lord. Upon fathers and mothers rests the responsibility of training these little ones, so that they may fulfill the destiny divinely planned for them. Rearing children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord (Eph. 6:4) is one of the most important and difficult tasks of life. The work cannot be successfully accomplished without divine assistance. Parents should seek the Lord for guidance, that they may know how to order their children.

In asking how to order the child, Manoah used the term “we.” The Messenger had given the original instructions to his wife, but Manoah rightfully looked upon himself as essentially connected with the wise management of the promised child. The joint endeavor of parents is essential to the proper training of children.

How shall we do unto him? Literally, “What shall be his work?” Manoah’s questions were directed toward a confirmation of what the Angel had told his wife on the first meeting, namely, that the child was to be a Nazirite, fully devoted to God’s service, and that his work would be to deliver Israel.