Matthew 10:38

Taketh not his cross. Among the Romans, death by crucifixion was reserved for slaves and for those convicted of the most heinous crimes. Thus it may be said that those sentenced thus to die were loathed, hated, and execrated by society. One condemned to crucifixion usually bore his cross to the place of execution. To take up the cross of Christ and follow after Him means to endure without complaint or regret the frown of friends and relatives and to bear the reproach of men with patience and humility. It is to endure the “sword” of persecution (see vs. 34-37) at the hands of the very ones from whom “peace” might be expected. This principle Christ reiterated upon various occasions (see Matt. 16:24; Mark 8:34; Luke 9:23; 14:27). But one who is called upon to take up his cross in order to follow Christ has the supreme privilege of fellowship with Him in His sufferings. No greater honor can come to any man (DA 224, 225).

Followeth after me. That is, in the pathway of discipleship and of suffering.