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matthew 18:21-35

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Matthew 18:21-35

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“In our prayers we talk to God, in our Bible study God talks to us, and we had better let God do most of the talking.”

— D.L. Moody
Matthew 18:21
Verse 21 of 35

Scripture focus

21. Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times? 22. Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven. 23. Therefore is the kingdom of heaven likened unto a certain king, which would take account of his servants. 24. And when he had begun to reckon, one was brought unto him, which owed him ten thousand talents. 25. But forasmuch as he had not to pay, his lord commanded him to be sold, and his wife, and children, and all that he had, and payment to be made. 26. The servant therefore fell down, and worshipped him, saying, Lord, have patience with me, and I will pay thee all. 27. Then the lord of that servant was moved with compassion, and loosed him, and forgave him the debt. 28. But the same servant went out, and found one of his fellowservants, which owed him an hundred pence: and he laid hands on him, and took [him] by the throat, saying, Pay me that thou owest. 29. And his fellowservant fell down at his feet, and besought him, saying, Have patience with me, and I will pay thee all. 30. And he would not: but went and cast him into prison, till he should pay the debt. 31. So when his fellowservants saw what was done, they were very sorry, and came and told unto their lord all that was done. 32. Then his lord, after that he had called him, said unto him, O thou wicked servant, I forgave thee all that debt, because thou desiredst me: 33. Shouldest not thou also have had compassion on thy fellowservant, even as I had pity on thee? 34. And his lord was wroth, and delivered him to the tormentors, till he should pay all that was due unto him. 35. So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses.

Matthew 18:21-35 — KJV

Commentary

Commentary on Matthew 18:21

Theological / Devotional

Then came Peter. In his assumed role as spokesman for the disciples (see on ch. 16:16) Peter often took the initiative in replying to questions, asking questions of his own or proposing a course of action (see on chs. 14:28; 16:16, 22; 17:4; etc.).

How oft? Directly or indirectly, much of ch. 18 is devoted to instruction on the Christian’s attitude toward offending brethren, particularly where the offense is personal. Peter tacitly accepts the idea of dealing patiently with his “brother,” but would like to know how long he must do so before he is free to take a more stem attitude and seek redress.

Till seven times? It has been suggested by some that the rabbis limited the times one should forgive another to three, on a false interpretation of Amos 1:3. Fully aware of the fact that Christ always interpreted the law in a broader sense than the scribes (see on Matt. 5:17, 18), Peter here seeks to anticipate the degree of patience Christ might be expected to recommend, seven being the number generally thought of as representing perfection (see COL 243). But to forgive a person “seven times,” and no more, would be a mechanical sort of forgiveness.

Forgiveness, on the part either of God or of man, is much more than a judicial act; it is a restoration of peace where there had been conflict (see Rom. 5:1). But forgiveness is even more than that — it includes the effort to restore the erring brother himself.

By SdaBc

Devotional

Matthew 18:21-35

Devotional on Matthew 18:21-35

The Parable of the Unforgiving Servant

Forgiveness is a concept that resonates deeply within the human heart, yet it often challenges us in ways we least expect. In the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus presents a profound teaching on forgiveness that calls us to extend grace beyond our natural inclinations. In Matthew 18:21-35, we find a parable that not only illustrates the depth of God's mercy but also sets a high standard for how we are to forgive others.

"Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, 'Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?' Jesus answered, 'I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times. Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand bags of gold was brought to him. Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt. At this, the servant fell on his knees before him. 'Be patient with me,' he begged, 'and I will pay back everything.' The servant's master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go. But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred silver coins. He grabbed him and began to choke him. 'Pay back what you owe me!' he demanded. His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, 'Be patient with me, and I will pay it back.' But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt. When the other servants saw what had happened, they were outraged and went and told their master everything that had happened. Then the master called the servant in. 'You wicked servant,' he said, 'I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. Shouldn't you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?' In anger his master handed him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed. This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart."

Biblical Context

In this passage, Peter approaches Jesus with a question that many of us have pondered: How often should we forgive someone who wrongs us? Peter suggests a number, perhaps thinking he is being generous, but Jesus' response stretches the boundaries of human generosity. By saying "seventy-seven times," Jesus is not providing a literal number but rather illustrating that forgiveness should be limitless.

The parable that follows is a vivid illustration of the kingdom of heaven. The king represents God, and the servant represents us. The debt of ten thousand bags of gold is an insurmountable amount, symbolizing the weight of our sins. The king's decision to cancel the debt shows the boundless mercy of God, who forgives us despite the enormity of our transgressions.

However, the parable takes a turn when the forgiven servant refuses to extend the same mercy to his fellow servant. This lack of compassion highlights a critical lesson: having received God's grace, we are called to mirror that grace in our interactions with others. The parable ends with a stern warning about the consequences of an unforgiving heart.

Forgiveness and Christ's Atonement

Forgiveness is deeply connected to the atonement of Christ. Through His sacrifice on the cross, Jesus paid the ultimate price for our sins, offering us forgiveness and reconciliation with God. This act of love is the foundation of our ability to forgive others. As we reflect on the magnitude of Christ's sacrifice, we are reminded that our own forgiveness is a reflection of the grace we have received. The Holy Spirit plays a vital role in this process, transforming our hearts and enabling us to forgive as we have been forgiven. It is through the Spirit's work that we are empowered to live out this forgiveness, acknowledging that salvation is by grace through faith, not by works.

Humility and Forgiveness

Earlier in Matthew 18, Jesus emphasizes the importance of humility, stating, "Whoever takes the lowly position of this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven" (Matthew 18:4). Humility is foundational to forgiveness. It requires us to acknowledge our own need for grace and to extend that same grace to others. Without humility, we risk becoming like the unforgiving servant, blind to the mercy we've received.

Consequences of Unforgiveness

Unforgiveness can lead to causing others to stumble, as highlighted in Matthew 18:6. When we hold onto grudges, we not only harm ourselves but also create an environment where bitterness can spread. This passage challenges us to reflect on how our unwillingness to forgive might impact those around us, potentially leading them away from the path of righteousness.

Daily Application

Forgiveness is not merely an act; it is a state of the heart. It requires us to release the hold of anger, resentment, and bitterness, choosing instead to embrace compassion and understanding. This passage challenges us to reflect on our own lives and consider how we handle grievances and offenses.

1. Recognize the Extent of God's Forgiveness

The first step in forgiving others is to recognize the magnitude of forgiveness we have received from God. Our sins, like the debt in the parable, are beyond our ability to repay. Yet, through Christ, God has wiped our slate clean. When we understand the depth of this mercy, it becomes a wellspring from which we can draw to forgive others.

2. Practice Compassionate Understanding

Forgiveness is often hindered by a lack of understanding. We hold onto grudges because we fail to see the situation from the other person's perspective. Practicing empathy and seeking to understand the reasons behind someone's actions can soften our hearts and make forgiveness possible. Remember, just as we have our struggles and weaknesses, so do others.

3. Take Practical Steps Towards Reconciliation

Forgiveness is not always easy, and it may require intentional effort. Here are some practical steps to help you move towards reconciliation:

- Pray for Strength and Guidance: Begin by asking God to soften your heart and give you the strength to forgive. Prayer aligns our hearts with God's will and opens us to His transforming power.

- Communicate Openly: If possible, have a conversation with the person who has wronged you. Express your feelings honestly but with kindness. This can pave the way for healing and understanding.

- Let Go of Resentment: Holding onto anger only harms us. Make a conscious decision to let go of resentment, trusting that God will bring justice in His time and way.

- Seek Support if Needed: Sometimes, forgiveness is a journey that requires support. Don't hesitate to seek counsel from a trusted friend or pastor who can provide guidance and encouragement.

A Short Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for the incredible gift of forgiveness You have extended to us through Jesus Christ. We acknowledge the weight of our sins and are grateful for Your mercy and grace. Help us to reflect Your love in our relationships by forgiving others as You have forgiven us. Soften our hearts, Lord, and give us the strength to let go of resentment and embrace compassion. May we be instruments of Your peace and reconciliation in the world. In Jesus' name, Amen.